Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. Harvey S. Firestone

The people with whom you work reflect your own attitude. If you are suspicious, unfriendly and condescending, you will find these unlovely traits echoed all about you. But if you are on your best behavior, you will bring out the best in persons with whom you are going to spend most of your waking hours.

Some people get spiritual because they see the light and some people get spiritual because they feel the heat!

How do you know if you're truly a servant? See how you react the next time someone treats you like one.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Happy Birthday Cole Selby

Cole,
 6 years ago you were a little chunky 5th grader that your mother was trying real hard to raise. You have now grown into a 6'3" 220 pound man. I came into your life 6 years ago and took on the responsibility of helping to raise you. Helping you to try to make the right decisions in life. Helping you to learn right from wrong and the many other things as parents we try to teach our children. I'm not always very good at that, and sometimes go about it in all the wrong ways, and for that I am truly sorry. Today I see that helping you find a church home in a great youth group and supporting that group has helped you become a better person. A more mature person. I can only hope and pray that in the future a seed has been planted that will continue in your heart for a long time, and that you will see that there is peace and truthfullness in the word of God. It is my prayer today that as you continue on in life that you will strive each day to be a better man, an honest person, and a forgiving person. I know that someday you will follow in the footsteps of your brothers and become a great father, husband and friend to others. I can only hope that you will look back someday and have the same respect and admiration for me as I do for Papa Harold.
I love you and I hope you have a wonderful day.
Your stepfather, Wendell

6 comments:

W-babymomma said...

Happy birthday Cole!! And well written again dad!!

wspouse said...

That is awesome. Thank you, youre gonna make me cry. Love you

Anonymous said...

Love to read your blog! Never easy raising children. Love Mom Happy Happy Birthday to Cole!

janneba said...

That was a good birthday greeting you are really a softy at heart. Raising kids is truly a nightmare at times believe me I know I have 6 all grown with grandkids and great grandkids who I never see because of distance and family fueds at times.
Don't know you Cole but you are a lucky young man. Happy Birthday

Anonymous said...

Happy birthday Cole you are a great kid!!! I miss seeing you and loved having you in my youth group!!!
Have a great day,
Jeffro

Anonymous said...

Your sincerity and the way you express yourself touches my heart. I am so happy you are part of our family. Wonderful words for Cole and I hope he reads this. Love, Mo