Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. Harvey S. Firestone

The people with whom you work reflect your own attitude. If you are suspicious, unfriendly and condescending, you will find these unlovely traits echoed all about you. But if you are on your best behavior, you will bring out the best in persons with whom you are going to spend most of your waking hours.

Some people get spiritual because they see the light and some people get spiritual because they feel the heat!

How do you know if you're truly a servant? See how you react the next time someone treats you like one.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

25 Years Ago Today

25 years ago today I was doing this for my first time!


Now she has turned in to this!


She started hanging out with this, and they became best friends.


She used to hang out at the lake and do this!




Some nights she would go follow this guy around (Randy Rogers Band)!


Then she met this guy!


He became the love of her life and they did this!



A short time later, this happened!


A few more months later, and this happened!


Today, 25 years later she has turned in to this!
The perfect Mommy.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIFFANY

25 Years ago today, I was a nervous first time father. I was scared, praying and hoping that you would be born healthy and safe into my arms. You were born with the most beautiful hair and eyelashes. Your skin was so soft and your complexion was magnificent just as it remains today. I helped spend the next three years trying to chase you down, keep you dressed and spoiling you beyond my means. You were the first grandchild, the only one for a few years and you very rarely lacked attention. Your Grandmother, Papa and Aunt Shayne would take you everywhere they went and show you off.

25 years later you have turned into a loving Mother yourself with a beautiful little girl that I know in my heart that you will love and cherish just as I did you. I look back and wish that I could change a few things. I wish that I could have given you more, or been there more for you, but as I look at you today I realize that you are the person that you wanted to be. You ARE what you wanted to be and nothing I could have ever done would have changed that. I know that you will be a very good mother and that you will continue to be a great wife.

Tiffany, I love you with all my heart and will forever continue to do so. It is my prayer today that you will have the best birthday ever and that you will continue to be blessed in your life. It is also my prayer today that someday you will continue your journey with God.
Happy Birthday Tooder!

12 comments:

wspouse said...

MASCARA ALERT! This is a lovely tribute to wdaughter #1. I know you had some tears too in writing it.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIFF! Love you

hrhrr said...

Wow!
Sitting here crying at my desk.
Wendell that is just beautiful!
You did good cuz - none of us have been or will be perfect parents.
Happy "birth"day! To you!
xoxo

W-Babymomma said...

Wow! There are no words to explain... I cried when I read it the first and second time! I am so lucky to have someone so special in my life! You are a wonderful writer and a wonderful father! Live you always!!

The Angry Squaw said...

Stunning birthday tribute. Beautiful. Happy Birthday to Tiffany. Nicely done, Mr. Corner.

Anonymous said...

Oh wow! You should really warn us..My make up is now gone..That was just precious..Your daughter is very blessed to have such an amazing father..Happy Birthday Tiffany..

janneba said...

That was just a real tear jerker, to early for that. But well done she surely must be proud of you for saying all those awesome things for the whole world to read out there in cyber-space.

Anonymous said...

Aww, that's one of the sweetest things you could have done for your daughter. What an awesome Dad :)

Answers? I don't know the questions. said...

As blessed as you are, she is equally blessed to have you as a Dad.

Shayne said...

Wow! What wonderful words. You are such a great father and man. I am proud to call you my brother. Love you Tiff and you too bubba.

Sherri said...

what a great tribute Dad!

there's a special something between dad's and their girls... thanks for sharing with us... she's beautiful... and that baby? oh boy - precious!

happy birthday Tiff!

tmike said...

WOW. Nice little photo essay. The tribute at the end is straight from the heart. Good reading.

Kathleen... said...

Mr. Corner, there is no greater gift for a child -- especially a girl -- than warm, sincere love expressed from her father.

I'm so grateful to count you as a Friend. You are a kind, admirable man.