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The people with whom you work reflect your own attitude. If you are suspicious, unfriendly and condescending, you will find these unlovely traits echoed all about you. But if you are on your best behavior, you will bring out the best in persons with whom you are going to spend most of your waking hours.

Some people get spiritual because they see the light and some people get spiritual because they feel the heat!

How do you know if you're truly a servant? See how you react the next time someone treats you like one.

Friday, November 26, 2010

From The Corner Of My Mind

* It's not supposed to be cold here in Austin. It is though, woke up to temps in the 30's. The pool outside doesn't look very inviting.
* W-brother-in-law is treating us to Starbucks. Great way to start the day.
* W-sister-in-law prepared a great Thanksgiving dinner. She had numerous appetizers including boiled shrimp,cheese balls and crackers, And the greatest Brie cheese pastry. Turkey,ham,sweet potatoes,green bean casserole,Mashed potatoes,dressing,cranberry sauce,salad,rolls and probably a few things I forgot. Numerous desserts, pies, muffins,cookies and chocolate pretzel sticks.
* For those of you who read about my wine mishap a few years back, well I goofed again. There were two glasses in front of us. Of course I chose the wrong one to pour the wine and water in. I'm just not cut out for the "lifestyle of the rich and famous".
* I do have down which fork to use. The large one is for the heavy duty work, and the small one is for light duty, such as salads or desserts. Or was that the knife rule? I'm all confused. Heck, just feed me with the dogs.
* Gina, great job. Thank you so much for having us in your home and for preparing a wonderful meal. You are a beautiful and gracious host. I promise to not mess with the wine again.
* The plan is to sleep in our own bed tonight. The plan a month ago was for W-spouse and I to spend the night out somewhere romantic tonight. Plans got changed.
* Five years ago today I placed a ring on the finger of the most beautiful, caring and loving woman in the world. Even if she forgot our anniversary and took call all weekend.
* Happy Anniversary W-spouse! I love you, and our family. Thank you for allowing me to be involved with your life.
* I am going to try something new this year during the holidays and hopefully my family will also. I'm tired of our "NASCAR" mentality during the holidays. Now let me explain. I mean that by saying, our family gatherings have become more like being at the races. You see the cars coming off turn one, they cross the line, anticipation builds' noise erupts, and they go by fast and loud, and it's all over. The excitement lasts momentarily. The same thing happens at the holidays. We go visit somewhere or the kids come over(cars coming into turn one) everyone is excited and hungry for either food or presents(anticipations builds, noise erupts). Then we eat, open presents and leave(cars go by,fast and loud). I want to be more patient. I want to spend more time at moms, or the kids to spend more time with us. I don't want, no matter the comfort level, to just "get up and leave". I don't remember a lot about my childhood, but one thing I do remember is the holidays at my grandparents, and I don't remember jumping up and going home after we opened the presents or ate. Let it be known, W-spouse and I are going to try and make this season a more rememberable and enjoyable for everyone involved.
* Pray for us today as we travel the I35 corridor back to Wise County, see ya Around The Corner!

7 comments:

Answers? I don't know the questions. said...

I agree with you on "it's over, let's leave" deal. We do the same thing or I should say I do the same thing. Tina has a better grasp on "visiting". In fact, most Friday nights finds her spending the night at her mother's house in Denton.

When I was young, we did stay for a real visit. Of course, we didn't have the distractions (i.e. cell phones, internet etc.) that we have today. Life was slower.

janneba said...

Be safe and Happy Anniversary

aroundthecorner said...

I agree also Answers, on the distraction issues. This year I will try to put those distractions away, and see if my plan works. I went and read the blog you recommended. Her writing style is wonderful. Very captivating. Her take on the holidays seems to be in line with mine also. I also linked off and read the story of Laginappe. Tears.....yep, I dread the day.

Answers? I don't know the questions. said...

I think you're on the right track with your plan. I've prayed that God will return you and Whitney safely. Sometimes when you have the time, read the older posts by Home on the Range. She is amazing.

Anonymous said...

As I told you in person, I really enjoy the way you express yourself. We so enjoyed having y'all here for TG. Great that you, W & C got to spend Friday with B, G & kids after kitchen clean-up & at Dave & Busters. Lucky you with your "anniversary/Thanksgiving/Christmas/Easter/several years to come" present from W-spouse!! It makes me happy that you two are so happy together. Love,Mo

wspouse said...

Honey I've been thinking,maybe we should just use the "little forks" for our Christmas meal, it will take longer for them to eat it!
lol
Love you too, super sorry bout the anniversary stuff.

Answers? I don't know the questions. said...

W-spouse, smaller forks would only increase my arm speed. lol